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Mommy Guilt...

Whenever I am doing something for one child I feel like I am shortchanging the other one.

GHR

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judifilksign
Mar. 1st, 2009 01:02 pm (UTC)
I feel the same way sometimes. I think all parents do at one time or another. My middle child, not being a squeaky wheel but a smoothly spinning one, does not always get the attention *I* think he deserves whilst I am oiling and smoothing out the needs of the other two.

I think small guilt trips are okay, because it helps you decide how to balance things so everyone feels loved and shined. Just don't dwell on it obsessively.

With both your littles being so, well, LITTLE right now, both of them are high-needs little girls, without the temperment or maturity to be patient when what they want or need has to wait even a little. That makes it hard on everybody.

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